A friend invited me and other sophomore girls to her Sweet Sixteen pajama party. Several girls, with night clothes in tow, got off the school bus at the birthday girl’s home to spend the night.

One of the invited guests had her boyfriend drive her to the party later. None of us had yet changed into our pajamas, so the escorted guest thought it safe to bring her date/fiancé, Leonard Abee, inside and introduce him to the other girls.

Despite being engaged to the prettiest girl in my class, Leonard informed me years later that when he saw me at that party, a thought ran through his mind: “What if I’d marry her?”

Shortly following the pajama party, the engaged couple broke up, and Leonard began dating another PJ party attendee. However, that PJ party girl went away to college, and apparently, Leonard took that as a call to end ties and break her heart.

Eventually, Leonard asked me for a date. I turned him down the first time, but he asked again. I accepted. We dated 1½ years and married on April 25, 1963.

For 60 years we’ve been admitting: “We met at a pajama party.”

Blaka Abee, Connelly Springs, a member of Rutherford EMC